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I have always said this…you have NO idea what people have to go through to get to where they are. People only NOTICE the end results of hard work and not what it takes to get there….
So true n sometimes ppl put up a front in front of others n no one knows what is happening behindvclosed doors. Live your life n not one elses.
this is why no one ever knows what matters to someone else. i have a disability
and people pester me to be ‘less independent’ and make it easier on myself.
but they don’t know what i’ve been through and how much it means to me to do
things on my own. i don’t know why i have to be subjected to their judgements
of what’s best for me – but i do and it makes me want to just give up. i hate being
I have a ‘hidden’ disability, most people think I’m fine. Even my sibling want me to go get a job. They don’t understand that I can’t stand or sit for long periods and that my joints ache. I just try to ignore those type of attitudes and do what I know to be best for me to be the healthiest me. Don’t give in and don’t give up! Isn’t it funny how little things mean a lot now?
I also have two disabilities and cancer and I do not have anybody except my husband who cares one way or the other. People just don’t seem to care if it is not their problem, as long as it does not interfere with their lives. My brother is a minister and does not care if I am alive or dead. My parents are both gone now and he is my only family except my husband’s children and his siblings. However, that does not go too far. What I cannot tolerate though, is how people call themselves Christian and can treat others with such a lack of compassion. There is no excuse for it. Some day, as life often happens, they may be dealing with the same circumstances and others may treat them as they have treated others who are not as fortunate. I try to forgive but it is hard. I also try to forget but that is hard too. Sorry, I am on my soap box about these issues.
I never compare my life to others. No one knows all the ups and downs of my life, not even my children.That’s why I don’t judge other people.I guess that’s why I’m so independent and stubborn.I’ve been made to do a lot of things in my life that I didn’t want to do. If i’d had my choice, things would have been a lot different. Like having to marry my first husband just because I was pregnant. My mother forced me to do that. but I still loved her. He beat me. She should have taken the beatings for me.I was only 17 years old, had never lived like that before. My father was against the marriage.
It’s about RESPECT and living in the present moment with those around you.
this is wisdom at its best thank you for the reality check
How true…how true!!
i have been thru alot too. people see the hard side of me and think i am mean. as if they have no faults. if people would focus on their own shortcomings instead of judging others this world would spin more smoothly. sometimes i just let people say the mean things and dont speak up for myself just to avoid drama. everyone has their own story to tell, and their own selfish perspectives. but there is always the other persons perspective. oh how different it can be…..
what my family is going through is indiscribable but I dont let the shortcomings get the best of me, I know one day everything is going to be alright, just i have to take it day by day.
ISN’T THAT THE TRUTH! AMEN
Another Amen, and so many people do it but as we grow wiser and draw our wisdom through our Maker we realize the grass is never greener on the other side. It only is perceived that way by falseness and we need to just love what we are, what we have and never want or think we want someone elses life..we were put here uniquely and Divinely for our own purpose and gifts and they are great, He doesn’t make mistake’s no sireee!! Amen
Yes, This quote is very simple but learn to our how to live a Life. Dont compare our life to others because we dont know what is happended in their life.
People i personally know think it’s easy to get over school bullying. They think they understand. But they’ll never understand. They have NO IDEA what i’ve been through. They’ll never understand what those jocks/popular kids did to me.
People i personally know think it’s easy to get over school bullying. It’s not easy to get over, especially when it went on for 7 MISERABLE YEARS. They think they understand. But they’ll never understand. They have NO IDEA what i’ve been through. They’ll never understand what those jocks/popular kids did to me.
some people dont have phones but we do
i saw this women who had these flowers and she was selling them cus she was homeless and she came up to me and my mum and said “do you want to buy one of these for a quid so i can buy a tea” my mum said “no” then turned to me and said she would of if she said please lol
Every day my brother bullies me he swares at me calls me fat and ugly and he aalways says im shit at life whenever i say so much as no to him like no ur not cutting my hair he throws me at the floor or chokes me punches me slapps me and smashes my head into things. I hate holidays because im home alone with him u might be thinking tell ur parents well i do but right after stuff happens he acts like it never happens and says he was only joking but my brusis cuts and my conscience says no.i cant look in the mirror with out crying or feeling shame for the way i look everybody tells me im skinny and pretty i even do modeling but i feel hyipnotised that im nothing i just want to get away all the time
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