When any relationship ends, it can be one of the most painful things you experience in life.

A heartbreak.

Change is a part of life. Nothing lasts forever; even the best things will one day come to an end. As you accept this, you can focus on fully experiencing and appreciating each relationship whilst it is in your life.

Ultimately, there is no end to a relationship; the form simply shifts into something new. The real courage is to let go and allow the highest expression that is seeking to happen.

The real courage is your willingness to let go of what you currently have so you can create something new.

The real courage is to love so fully that if a relationship ends, you have no regrets.

You attract into your life who you are. And those you attract are manifestations of your own state of consciousness at that particular time.

They are mirrors.

As you grow and your consciousness expands, those in your life must either grow with you, or the nature of your relationship will inevitably shift.

Just because the form of your relationship needs to change doesn’t mean the love needs to go away.

We often think that if a relationship ends, the love needs to stop. When, in fact, to stay in a relationship that no longer feels right is, in fact, not loving.

To honor your authentic heart’s truth is the most loving thing you can do. In doing this, you honor those around you too.

Dare to find the most authentic form of relating that can serve both you and the other person to love even more fully.

So rather than holding onto the way a relationship was in the past, feel what is most true now and what it is seeking to be today.

To stay in a relationship that is not truly fulfilling in the present is to be in a dead relationship. The relationship is a museum rather than a living inspiration.

Try asking yourself this: “If I met this person today, would I be in a relationship with them today?”

Be honest.

When you first meet someone, whether a romantic relationship, friend, or business partner, you gravitate to each other because you were a vibrational match. As you grow, so long as you both keep growing in the same direction at a similar pace, you can keep evolving your relationship. But if you do not, there might come a point where you no longer are a fit.

As two people evolve, if you grow in different directions that no longer feel right for you both, it will put pressure on the way the relationship is currently set up.

It is important to remember that just because a relationship ends or changes form, it isn’t bad. It just may no longer be a vibrational match.

If you are feeling a current relationship is not working, ask yourself:

  1. Does this relationship inspire me to be more of who I authentically am?
  2. Do we inspire each other to grow, expand, and evolve as souls?
  3. What is the lesson that this person/relationship was brought into my life to teach me?

When you let go of the old relationships, you create the space for the new ones to show up.

Trust that following your heart and truth will lead you to exactly where you are meant to be for your highest good and all concerned.

Trust that the universe is abundant and will bring about your highest good.

Trust that the Love that is available is infinite.

You are Love.

All forms change.

Only Love is real.



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Kute Blackson is a life coach and speaker. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. For more on Kute, please visit his website and follow him on Twitter.

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