Gossip robs you of energy and is a cheap way to feel good about yourself.
It is pointless entertainment.
Whenever you gossip about someone else, you lower your own vibration.
Whenever you gossip, you waste your time and your own life.
Whenever you gossip, you give the person you gossip about your energy and power for that moment.
It serves nothing to gossip or speak negatively about another. Gossip is an empty calorie communication, like eating cheap fast food, that leaves you dissatisfied.
Ask yourself if the person was there with you whether you would speak in the same manner about them.
Ask yourself if you would feel good about other people speaking the same way about you.
Ask yourself if what you are saying about the other person is loving.
Your words are powerful. They are energy and vibration.
When you speak, you impact yourself, and you also impact those around you.
When you gossip about another, you are impacting their world and how others perceive that person.
What impact do you want to have in life?
Know that everything you put out will come back to you. It’s the law of karma. The energy with which you speak about another will come back to you. So be very aware and conscious of what you say.
It’s easy to gossip about those who are successful and going for their dreams. But realize it takes humility to let yourself be inspired by their success and use it as inspiration to live your highest.
It’s easy to gossip about those who are negative and “failing” in life. But it takes courage to hold them with compassion, amidst their pain, and send them love instead.
Commit to speaking about others in a manner that enhances more love. This doesn’t mean you won’t be honest or certain communications won’t be challenging. Rather, it’s an invitation to be clear in your intention.
So, what is the intent for your communication?
If your commitment is to love, then what would you say and how would you speak?
Speak only love.
Or don’t speak at all.
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Kute Blackson is a life coach and speaker. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. For more on Kute, please visit his website and follow him on Twitter.
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