Do you feel that you will never find love? Maybe you should think again.

“Somewhere someone is looking for exactly what you have to offer.”– Louise Hay.

“Someday all the love you have given away, will find its way back to you and it will finally stay.”– Drewniverses

There Is Someone Who Is Only Yours 

“What you seek is seeking you”– Rumi

Whatever has gone was never yours, learn the lessons, be patient and get ready to welcome the one who is only yours.

There is just one person who is meant to spend the rest of your life with you. Every other person was meant to lead you to this person.

While you are reading this, they are somewhere watching movies, eating or hanging out with their friends. They are doing normal day-to-day activities exactly like you. One day you will do these things with them. Both of you will be together!

Don’t Let Body Insecurity Stop You from Finding Love

You feel that someone with a good body shape can have any partner. You wish for a nice body shape. It is true that men are biologically programmed to look for a woman who can give birth to healthy kids. That’s why they are attracted to beautiful women. This is biological and beyond their control!

Women prefer good looking men too. It is easier for a handsome man to find a partner.

But physical attractiveness can only help in the initial attraction. It isn’t enough. It can’t make someone love you. Do you want someone to be there with you for your whole life or someone who leaves you once your looks fade away?

If only physically attractive people can find love then why there are several instances where the relationships of physically attractive couples could not last?

A true partner will love you for who you are. They will accept both your strengths and your flaws. They need honesty, loyalty and love. They need someone who will stay with them no matter how odd the circumstances are.

Are you ready to be such a partner? What do looks have to do with your love? Your body is a gift. Be grateful for it. You have massive capability to love. This is what they long for. This is all you need to build a long-lasting and loving relationship.

Don’t Live In an Illusion that Only Money Can Buy Love

Unfortunately, there are some people who get into relationships for the sake of money. The rich people find it easier to get a partner. But there are many rich people whose relationships could not stand the test of time.

This is because in the long run, there are various other factors which help to build a healthy, strong and loving relationship.

Money is essential to survive in this world because it helps to bring food on the table. But it cannot buy love.

Don’t you want to be loved for who you are and not for your money?

How to Find the Love of Your Life?

Each one of us has someone who is just ours. There is someone who is made just for us.

They will enter your life when you are prepared for them. How to prepare yourself for them?

Embrace Your Life

“Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” -Robert Breault

Appreciate your life. You have just one life. Spend time with your loved ones. Be grateful for your gifts in life.

Love Yourself

Accept yourself completely – both your strengths and your flaws.

“Find the love you seek, by first finding the love within yourself. Learn to rest in that place within you that is your true home.”– Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

Work On Your Goals

Do what your heart desires. Get a meaningful job.

“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”– Walt Disney.

Be Kind and Loving To Everyone

Each one of us is struggling. Don’t make it worse for anyone by being unkind. Love people. Help people.

“The love, kindnesses, and value we have given authentically to others will be our remaining treasures at the end of life.” – Steve Brunkhorst

Final Thoughts

Life is not bad. It just gets difficult at times, maybe a little too complicated at times.

Remember that you are very strong. You have all the strength that you need. One day, someone will love you exactly in the way you have wished for all your life.

Until the two of you become a part of each other’s lives, love your family and friends, love yourself.

You are amazing. Keep going.

Don’t take away their share of love (which is you) from them by giving up on love. Hang on for this person!

Are you ready for the love of your life?

Utkarsha Kashyap writes about self-improvement. She intends to inspire people to live life to the fullest and follow their purpose, be positive and kind, live life fearlessly and happily.





Image courtesy of Gabby Orcutt.