When you blame, you become lame.

Blaming keeps you stuck in the same game of repetitive patterns.

You simply give your power away to that which you blame and allow it to control your freedom. You give away your power to change.

Who or what are you blaming in your life?


Things do happen in life that are painful.

This is true.

But to hold onto the anger and resentment simply keeps you stuck in the past.

Sometimes, we create a story about what happened or should have happened. To the degree you allow your past story to define your present experience is to the degree you will suffer.

When you blame, you choose to be a victim. In doing so, you disown your own power.

When you blame, you dishonor yourself and how strong you really are. Instead, you end up buying into the illusion of someone or something you are not.

When you blame, you also dishonor those at whom you point the finger, forgetting who they really are and the lessons you are meant to learn.

To continue blaming can be an excuse for actually doing something to change your current situation and yourself. It can sometimes be easier to blame than to make the change you know is needed.

You always have a choice in any given moment as to how to respond, and it’s those choices in your past that have created your current situation. However, it’s your choices in the present that will determine your future.

It takes courage to stop blaming and take responsibility.

This is a true HERO.

This level of responsibility is what is required to be an authentic leader.

No excuses.

No blame.

Your willingness to take this level of responsibility is the key to your freedom.

You will experience freedom in direct proportion to the level of responsibility you take for what happens in your life. Then you can learn the lessons for the particular relationship or experience you find yourself in.

You attract to yourself what your soul most needs to learn at any given moment. There are no accidents in life. Just make sure you learn the lessons so that you can grow to the next level.

No one owes you anything. God has given you everything you need already to create universes. When you blame and wallow in feeling sorry for yourself, you miss your own amazing gifts.

So rather than begging for help, be the help to those around you as well as yourself.

No one is coming to save you.

Not your parents.
Not a white knight.
Not the government.

…Because you are already here.

You are the one you have been seeking.

You are it!



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Kute Blackson is a life coach and speaker. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. For more on Kute, please visit his website and follow him on Twitter.

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